7 Mistakes Nice Guys do to Friendzone Themselves
Women friend-zone nice guys NOT because they are “nice” but because nice guys show weakness, lack of confidence and indecision. Women are attracted to bad boys NOT because they are “bad” but because they show confidence and go after what they want.
A man who is caring, nice while being confident, strong man is every woman’s wet dream. Such guys are very rare and the good news is that every “nice guy” has the potential to develop himself into becoming such a man while the jerks and bad boys will never become one.
Mistake #1: Asking her to make decisions.
Be a fucking man!Women are attracted to guys who take charge, lead, and make decisions. Never ask: “Would you like to go out?” or “Where would you like to eat?” That’s a turn off. Be a leader, decide on a plan and say: “Let's go for a dinner to Olive Garden this Thursday”, or “I'm going to the mall, join me.” Be decisive. Always come up with a plan of action.
Mistake #2: Agreeing to everything or putting her on pedestal.
Grow some balls and say NO!Women are attracted to guys who have their own opinion. Don’t agree with her, just because you want to show that you are a perfect match, or because you want to avoid conflict. Women crave emotions, good or bad. It’s beneficial to make her feel upset sometimes. Women lose attraction to guys who put them on pedestal and say yes to all of their requests. Say no to her and she will respect you and love you!
Mistake #3: Complimenting too much or not at all
Make your compliments specificDon't give generic compliments, like "you look beautiful", that sounds too polite and not genuine. Find something specific you like and compliment on it. “I just noticed how long and beautiful eyelashes you have” or “I love your hair color” and touch her hair. Less is more, make one compliment per date.
Mistake #4: Treating her like a friend
Touch her, tease her, kiss her!Escalate physically, start small and gradually turn up the heat. Tease her and when she laughs, touch her shoulder, arm or knee. When crossing a street grab her hand and lead her across. When entering restaurant place your palm on her lower back and lead her to the seat. Touch her hair a few times, then lean in and kiss her.
Mistake #5: Confessing your feelings for her
Focus on having fun and being a man!Confessing love works only in movies, never in real life. Chances are that she doesn’t have the same feelings for you yet. By confessing your love before she feels the same way, you will make her feel awkward and turned off. DO NOT talk about your feelings, rather focus on having fun, leading, and let her fall in love with the strong man that you are.
Mistake #6: Apologizing all the time!
Save "I'm sorry" only for a huge screw upNice guys have the tendency to say “sorry” all the time. Even if your decision was a bad one, fight the urge to apologize. This turns off women. Instead of apologizing, take the responsibility, move on and fix whatever you did wrong. Let your actions speak instead! If she rejects your advances, DO NOT appologize, she is not ready yet, just brush it off with a smile.
Mistake #7: Looking like a slob