How to Kiss a Girl - 7 Rules of Physical Escalation
To Kiss a girl, you must physically escalate. Escalating means moving forward step by step to your desired goal - kiss or sex. You start with small non-sexual touches and step by step you progress to more intimate touches, kissing and eventually sex.
Escalate right from the start when you meet her. When you delay, you are setting yourself up for the friend-zone trap. When you escalate from the beginning, it portrays you as a confident man that women love. It says you are not afraid she will reject you when you show her your sexual desire for her.
#1 Don’t Wait for an Indication of Interest
When a girl is interacting with you; that is the only indication you need. The best way to make her interested in you is by escalating. Never wait for the girl to show signs she is interested before you make a move. Stop waiting for her to smile, or touch you, move now! Escalate!
Don't be afraid to touch her first. You don’t have to wait for her to decide if she wants you or not. What matters is that you have decided she is good enough and now you are going to show her you are interested in her by escalating from the start.
#2 Touch Her as Soon as Possible
When it comes to touching a girl during a conversation, it’s always best to do it early. This is because it becomes more difficult to do as time goes on. This is why you should do it early and make it seem as normal as possible. You can start off by touching her upper arm then you touch her elbow and the small of her back. These are the easiest parts to touch. For instance, you can to touch her on the elbow or upper arm while trying to make a point. You can also touch the lower back while you point at something with your other hand. You can also touch the small of her back whenever she moves very close to your side.
#3 Hold Sexy Eye Contact
Maintaining eye contact is a crucial part of the seduction game. This is because holding eye contact portrays you as dominant and sexually confident. Never allow yourself to look shy or scared of holding eye contact for too long. Even when it gets uncomfortable, confidence helps you use that tension to create sexual chemistry. Remember that you don’t want to be the one breaking eye contact as this tells her you are not confident. Rather, you should maintain eye contact to demonstrate that you are sexually attracted to her. Your eye contact should go with a sly smile while you lock eyes with her until she looks away.
#4 Focus on the Neck
First, slow down, no rushed moves! Lean into her, smell her hair by the ear and say; “Hmmm, you smell so good!” Then can slowly move down, smell her neck and smile. Then you can kiss and bite her neck gently. This builds sexual tension as the neck is sensual and intimate place that you can touch a woman to arouse her. Only lovers kiss a woman’s neck, so when you do this, she will know you are a potential lover.
#5 Be Unreactive
No matter what happens, you must stay unreactive when you are escalating. This means you should completely disregard her reactions and continue being playful as you escalate physical contacts. She might act uninterested but that is part of the game so you have to ignore this and any other negative reactions.
Even if you tried to kiss her and she moved away, that is no reason to give up on the escalating game. If a girl does not want to kiss you the first time, it does not mean she will never want to kiss you. You need to be unreactive to such rejections. Simply try again later when she will be ready for the kiss.
To move forward, you need to make excuses for any pushbacks you get from her. You can intentionally misinterpret her resistance. You can jokingly respond by saying “Wow! That’s the best compliment I got, how romantic!” or you can say: “You are so cute, what will I do without you?” and then you hug her and just continue whatever you were saying without reacting to her negative comments.
Girls love it when a guy acts without seeking permission. It means you are not worried about people not liking you.
#6 Go for the Kiss
Move slowly, start light. Do not be like most guys who just rush in to get the kiss, going straight for the girl’s lips. This is a crucial lack of control which repels women. It is not sexually attractive and a turn off, it is even annoying to many girls.
Instead you can start by lightly kissing. Gently kiss each lip at a time and do not try to suck her whole mouth into yours. It’s simple, just kiss her lower lips lightly, then you kiss her upper lips while you allow the tension build. When it’s time for deep kissing, you’ll know but start lightly like I said and build from there.
#7 Make Sure Your Breath is in Check and You Smell Great
Chew a gum before talking with a girl. Another option is to use a breath mint. You should also wear a good cologne which increases your attractiveness with zero effort. For additional results try our Pure Passion pheromone.